When did you last really talk?
Not about work, the kids, or whose turn it is to cook — about each other. The Us Questions turns ten quiet minutes into the conversations that keep couples close.
The quiet drift
The silence isn't a lack of love
You talk every day — logistics, schedules, dinner. But the conversations that made you fall for each other? Those get rarer every year, not because you stopped caring, but because nobody hands couples the next question.
That's the whole job of this book: to sit between you and ask what you've both been meaning to.
Meet the book
The Us Questions
A guided workbook of honest, sometimes uncomfortable, always worthwhile questions — sequenced so every conversation builds on the last one. Read it on any device, or print it and keep it on the nightstand.
- Chapters
- 6
- Formats
- 3
- Delivery
- Instant
Inside the book
Six chapters, one conversation at a time
- 01
Beginnings
How you found each other — and what you were each carrying when you did.
- 02
The Everyday
Habits, homes, and the small rituals that quietly hold a life together.
- 03
Money
The conversation most couples postpone, broken into questions you can actually answer.
- 04
Intimacy
Closeness, desire, and what it means to feel truly seen by one person.
- 05
Conflict & Repair
How you fight, what it costs, and how you find your way back to each other.
- 06
The Future
Dreams, fears, and the life you are building — on purpose, together.
How it works
One night a week. That's it.
Pick a night
One evening a week. Phones down, something nice to drink, thirty unhurried minutes.
Write first, then talk
You each answer in the companion worksheet before you speak — so the quieter one of you is never talked over.
Go one chapter at a time
The questions are sequenced from light to deep on purpose. Trust the order; let it build.
Try three tonight
A taste of the questions
“What is something you have wanted to ask me, but never have?”
“When do you feel most loved by me — and when do you feel most alone?”
“What are we not talking about right now?”
If one of these made you pause — that pause is the book working. There are a few hundred more where they came from.
Written for real couples — not perfect ones!
Every couple I have ever admired had one thing in common: they never stopped being curious about each other. This book is that curiosity, written down — the questions I believe every couple deserves to be asked.
They adore it!
One good question can change the whole evening.
Get the Book — ₦15,000“We did one chapter a week over dinner. By chapter three we were having conversations we'd been avoiding for years — gently.”
“I bought it for date night material. What we actually got was a completely different understanding of each other's families, money habits, and fears.”
“The worksheet is the genius part. Writing first meant I finally said things I always swallow in the moment.”
Everything you get
Start the conversation tonight
- The Us Questions — the complete book, beautifully typeset (PDF)
- The companion worksheet — space for both of you to answer, in PDF and spreadsheet formats
- Instant delivery — your download link lands in your inbox the moment payment clears
- Yours for good — read on phone or tablet, or print it and write in the margins
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The Us Questions
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Questions, answered
What exactly do I get when I buy?
The complete book as a beautifully typeset PDF, plus the companion worksheet in both PDF and spreadsheet formats. Your download link arrives by email the moment payment is confirmed.
Is this for new couples or long-term relationships?
Both. The questions are sequenced from light to deep, so new couples build a foundation while long-term partners rediscover things they stopped asking about.
How do we actually use it?
One night a week works best. You each write your answers in the worksheet first, then talk. One chapter at a time — the order matters.
What payment methods do you accept?
Payment is handled securely by Paystack — card, bank transfer, or USSD. We never see or store your card details.